De Snook November 12, 2019 Trauma Is Not Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Responsibility De Snook November 12, 2019 What happened to you was not your fault. It was not something you asked for, it was not something you deserved. What happened to you was not fair.You were merely collateral damage on someone else’s warpath, an innocent bystander who got wrecked out of proximity.